Don’t Fall Into the Twin Flame Trap. (Like I Did)
If there’s one thing I wish people would take away from my advice it’s this.
The twin flame journey can be the best thing to happen to you. If you let it.
We have this awful habit of getting so caught up with the earlier stages that we hold ourselves (and our twin) back from happiness.
This can take many forms.
- For those of us who haven’t met our twin yet, we can become so caught up with the outward search.
- If we’re not sure if we’ve met our twin we twist ourselves into knots and drive people away.
- When we have met our twin and enter a difficult separation stage we draw this stage out without knowing it?
How do I know?
I’ve heard thousands of twin flame stories at this point.
Plus, I’ve made every mistake it was possible to make. I’ve fallen into this trap.
Whether our twin is on the other side of the planet, caught in a karmic relationship or standing right next to you. The path toward union is never to just sit and wait for it to happen.
There are a lot of different opinions and beliefs on the twin flame journey and no two journeys are ever exactly the same.
But this is one thing that is universal. Even if it can seem counter-intuitive.
If you want to end separation and reach union with your twin flame the focus must be within. It isn’t about saying the right thing to them. It isn’t about waiting for the universe. It certainly isn’t about waiting for them to figure it out.
This is the thing and please hear me when I say this.
The twin flame journey is not supposed to be difficult.
But we often make it harder than it needs to be.
When I met my twin (he doesn’t like me using his real name so I call him ‘John‘ on here) I was sure. I knew this was something else even before I’d ever heard the term ‘twin flame’.
What I didn’t understand – is why he didn’t seem to see what I saw. It seemed so blindingly obvious to me I thought I was going crazy. He just seemed to shrug it off and we separated.
I did exactly what I see so many readers do. I waited. I worried when we didn’t speak, I watched his social media, I thought about him endlessly. I couldn’t figure out why he couldn’t see what I saw.
I couldn’t figure out why I felt like this.
What I didn’t do is work on actually progressing my journey. I didn’t know I was supposed to. Unsurprisingly, nothing happened. For 3 years.
Eventually, I heard the term twin flame and everything just clicked. This was exactly what I was experiencing. Finally, I had an answer.
Or so I thought.
So, so many of us make it this far. We understand there’s a connection unlike any other. We can give it a name. This is where we fall down. We get stuck in an endless loop.
It took another year in separation before I figured that out.
But the moment I did – Bam!
Part of me will always regret that wasted time.
Most of me knows it doesn’t matter anymore because it led to where I am now.
Why does this story matter?
You can learn from my mistakes. Skip the years of separation I went through.
Putting this roadmap to union together has allowed me to help other people further their journey and reach union. In the scheme of things, those years of agony and separation were worth it.
I found myself in the (fairly unique) situation of hearing from thousands of people at different stages of this journey and read through every scrap of advice I could find when going through my own journey.
The end result is a collection of real, actionable and useful tools which can help you reach union. I dubbed it the Twin Flame Union Companion.
The Twin Flame Union Companion is my complete roadmap to bring you towards union no matter where you are in the journey.
I took what I learned from all my original research, refined it with what I did myself and I continually update it with things I learn speaking to thousands of others on their journey.
It’s broken down into easy-to-follow techniques, examples and you can follow along with my routine or adapt it as needed to suit your schedule.
I want to get this into as many hands as possible but if I just uploaded it to the site I know exactly what would happen. People would pick it up, follow it for a day or two and move on to the next bit of advice.
That doesn’t do anyone any good.
On the other side of that, there are people charging hundreds or even thousands of dollars for their twin flame book – and I’ve read them. I don’t think that’s going to do you (or me) any good either.
So here’s the deal.
I put everything into the companion download section (including everything I record going forward) and I ask for a one-time investment equivalent to a couple of trips to Starbucks.
It’s not much. Certainly nowhere near what I’ve paid in the past. It’s enough to make you value the information and put the work in.
I can’t do the journey for you. I can’t make you work on yourself. I can at least get you to try and work on yourself.
And If You Disagree?
I’ll give you a refund.
Give this an honest and consistent try and if you don’t think it’s working for you then I’ll send you every cent back.
Follow My Voice
You might already have your own approach to meditation (and that’s great too) but it can be an important part of the journey and I wanted to make it as easy as possible.
I’ve recorded a collection of affirmations and meditations (and some guidance on how to get the most out of them).
Join Us for the Full Journey
The original companion was based just on what worked for me.
But no two twin flame journeys are ever exactly the same.
I constantly hear from people on different stages of their journey and combine all the most useful parts to constantly update the companion. You get access to every update (free) from the small tweaks to the new meditations. Once you’re in, you’re in.
Forget The Minor Details
I don’t pretend to know everything about the twin flame journey. In fact, I’m wary of anyone who pretends to. Opinions, beliefs and expectations vary widely but I’ve put this companion together with this in mind.
I don’t expect you to believe exactly the same as me.
I don’t want to get bogged down in the small details and terminology.
It doesn’t matter where you are on the journey. It doesn’t matter what is going on. I think the answer toward union is universal.
The journey continues.