If you’re wondering “Can twin flames be toxic?”, then you’re very likely in a separation situation on your own twin flame journey. Or you are about to have a massive realization about what you think of as a powerful spiritual connection based on unconditional love.
You might be considering that your twin flame is toxic because you may think that your twin is draining your energy. The permanent energetic contact you’re in can lead you to think that due to the energy dynamics between twin flames. Since you’re sharing a constant connection, information and frequencies travel through it constantly. If your twin is going through a very low frequency, then you’re going to feel that through the bond; you might interpret it as having your energy be pulled on, when in fact your twin is pulling on your bond to ask for your help through their higher self. Though twin flames might feel triggered as part of a separation phase or human experience, they’ll never truly be able to feel hate for their twin flame. If the bond has become negative, then it’s not a real twin flame bond. It might be a false twin situation. You’ll have to rely on your intuition and guidance from your spiritual team in order to figure that out.
Can a Twin Flame Drain Your Energy?
Why would it occur to you that your twin flame or presumed twin flame is draining your energy? Most likely because of the twin flame energy cord, which involves constant spiritual and energy contact between the counterparts.
Permanent energetic contact
The magnetic pull between counterparts is based on the soul bond or energy cord. It’s an energy bond between twin flames that is indestructible.
While the participation on the journey is up to each counterpart’s free will, the fact that they are twin flames and thereby bonded by a soul contract and energy cord is not optional. The bond is there, embedded in your energy code, part of your soul’s makeup no matter what blueprint you decide to follow during one or another human experience.
Because of the constant energy contact, once you become aware of it and you’re going through a low-frequency moment yourself and your twin flame is possibly going through the same thing, you might get the idea that your twin flame is draining your energy.
If you’re struggling at this stage of your journey, take a moment and get a twin flame reading.
Twin flame energy feels like a constant ebb and flow. When it hits the “low tide” moment, you might be tempted to see that as your twin pulling on your resources in a draining manner. But the truth of the matter is this: you’re part of a dynamic.
On an energetic level, you function as a team unit, whether you’re aware of it or not and whether you’re liking it or not. That means that you’re constantly working together and your resources function in the same way. Due to your bond, you or your twin flame could never drain each other’s energy, unless one or both of you have fallen into terribly dark low frequencies.
If one or both of you have fallen into very low frequencies, then because of the very powerful soul connection, that energy will creep into the joint pool of resources. That means that while your twin can’t actually pull on your energy unless they’re going energy vampire on you, they can influence your own frequency up to a point through a form of “energy contagion”.
Ever notice how, if you’re around someone who’s very worked up, you start to slowly tense up without having anything to do with that situation? People are often empathic, and twin flames are more so empathic than the rest due to their soul bond. So you’re very sensitive to your twin’s frequency.
If you’re feeling low, then your twin most likely is terribly low around that time. They’re not pulling on your energy as much as pulling on your energy cord connection to ask for your help through the soul connection.
Can Twin Flames Hate Each Other?
Do you feel like you hate your twin flame sometimes? It’s more likely to feel that way during the separation phase because it’s such a trying and triggering part of the twin flames journey.
The basis of the twin flames soul bond is that of unconditional love. It’s an immensely powerful type of bond and soul contract, which involves high-frequency love. It doesn’t have to involve a romantic relationship at all, or any type of relationship in the 3D, in fact.
Twin flames can choose not to walk on the path towards union during a human experience. While they may choose that based on their free will, though they might feel animosity due to their own shadows, they will never truly feel hate for their twin flames. They simply can’t.
Why Can Twin Flames Feel Toxic?
Lack of Recognition
If your twin flame doesn’t seem to recognize you, then the bond can come across as toxic to you because of the twin flame separation phase you’re in.
There are a lot of low-frequency feelings that come up when you’re triggered as part of the separation. It may become almost overwhelming at times, and that can come across as toxic. In fact, you’re processing toxic low frequencies from your energetic code. As you’re processing them, if you do the work and grow and evolve, you raise your frequency and purge them from your energetic field.
Your twin flame not recognizing you or your bond or treating you like a false twin is going to bring out a lot of those low frequencies. The process is going to help you heal the blueprint you’re working on during this human experience and help your higher selves heal the relationship karma. So when things get tough and it feels like a toxic situation, look at it from the perspective of healing and overcoming that frequency for the long run.
Rejection of the Journey
If your twin flame seems to reject you or your relationship, that may cause a lot of pain. Though your love is a higher dimensional and high frequency one, your human experience self has human experience needs and feelings – that’s perfectly normal and an integral part of the process.
But if your twin flame is rejecting the journey, then it might cause you to think or feel like the bond or the love is becoming toxic. Unless you’re allowing those low frequencies to overwhelm you, it’s not. But if you’re resisting to do the work, or your twin flame is resisting it, then it can seem toxic because you’re not processing that low frequency in order to purge it.
The Need for Healing and Shadow Work
This process needs a lot of healing and shadow work. The more triggering your love or relationship blueprint brings to the surface, the harder you need to work to overcome those low frequencies. As a result, the more pressing the need becomes for healing and shadow work.
The bond only feels negative if you and/or your twin aren’t doing the shadow work, pretty much. Of course, if they’re not pulling their own weight as part of the healing process, you can’t do it for them. That may feel toxic sometimes too, because of the energetic contagion effect.
But though it may seem that way sometimes, particularly when you’re going through a low vibe moment yourself, it’s simply stagnation, not negativity.
False Twin Flame
If you’re involved in a relationship with a false twin, then the love bond you’re treating as a twin flame one might turn very toxic.
If you’re operating on the notion that your bond is based on high-frequency unconditional love, you’re going to assign to it traits it doesn’t actually have. Then, if you operate based on the relationship having those traits, you can end up very confused and hurt. Because while a twin flame bond is going to be stagnant at its worst, triggering you as a result, a false twin can truly mess you up emotionally and emotionally.
The karmic aspect of such a relationship is still going to benefit you in the long run, if you do your shadow work and heal whatever caused you to get confused in the first place. But you might also get lost in the maze of figuring it out. That can leave you struggling in a sea of low frequencies.
Unsure What You’re Experiencing?
Whether you’re in a twin flame relationship or not, can twin flames be toxic? The truth of the matter is that true twin flames can’t ever be toxic, but they might seem so during key moments of the separation phase.
It’s up to your intuition and the help of your spirit guides, ancestors, guardian angels, the universe, and the divine to figure out whether your twin flame bond seems toxic because it’s making you process low frequencies or because it’s not a twin flame bond and it has become negative due to you operating on the assumption that it is.
Whatever the situation, you should focus on your own healing and your shadow work. Simply outgrowing those low frequencies is going to help you tremendously. You’ll reach clarity and make progress towards your ascension.